A lone University Professor wrote the book about vibrators, manual massage by physicians and midwifes, and promptly lost her University job.

• Don’t miss part 1: The history of vibrators: (1) orgasms as medical therapy for hysteria

Batteries Not Included:  A social history of the vibrator. |NYT

The electric vibrator was invented right after the electric sewing machine, fan, teakettle and toaster, and before the electric vacuum cleaner, the electric iron and the electric fry pan. Who knew that everyone cared so deeply about women’s pleasure? [...]

In 1918 Sears, Roebuck & Company offered a vibrator attachment for a home motor that would also drive a churn, a mixer and a sewing machine. Two models of portable vibrators were described as ”Such Delightful Companions” in 1922. Still another advertisement promised, ”All the pleasures of youth . . . will throb within you.”

Alas, the invention of the vibrator had nothing to do with love in the afternoon or sexual liberation. It was originally a labor-saving device to help doctors give their female patients a ”hysterical paroxysm” — that is, an orgasm.

What in the world were doctors doing vibrating their female patients to orgasm? The simple answer is that their fingers got tired. The complicated answer is delivered in Maines’s short, stimulating, repetitive and occasionally frustrating book, ”The Technology of Orgasm: ‘Hysteria,’ the Vibrator, and Women’ s Sexual Satisfaction.”

The vibrator, Maines argues, is the last in a long line of devices and techniques that were used to combat hysteria. Beginning with Hippocrates and running through Galen, Avicenna, Paracelsus, Pare, Burton and Harvey, all the way up to the mid-20th century, doctors fought valiantly against this terrible disease. The trouble was that the disease they were fighting, Maines explains, was ordinary female sexual desire. The classic symptoms of hysteria — ”anxiety, sleeplessness, irritability, nervousness, erotic fantasy, sensations of heaviness in the abdomen, lower pelvic edema and vaginal lubrication” — are the symptoms of chronic arousal.  NYT

2500 years of medical orgasm induction

As Forestus suggests here, in the Western medical tradition genital  massage to orgasm by a physician or midwife was a standard treatment  for hysteria, an ailment considered common and chronic in women. Descriptions   of this treatment appear in the Hippocratic corpus, the works  of Celsus in the first century A.D., those of Aretaeus, Soranus, and Galen  in the second century, that of Aetius and Moschion in the sixth century,the anonymous eighth- or ninth-century work Liber de Muliebria, the  writings of Rhazes and Avicenna in the following century, of Ferrari da  Gradi in the fifteenth century, of Paracelsus and Pare in the sixteenth, of  Burton, Claudini, Harvey, Highmore, Rodrigues de Castro, Zacuto, and  Horst in the seventeenth, of Mandeville, Boerhaave, and Cullen in the  eighteenth, and in the works of numerous nineteenth-century authors  including Pinel, Gall, Tripier, and Briquet.2 Given the ubiquity of these  descriptions in the medical literature, it is surprising that the character  and purpose of these massage treatments for hysteria and related disorders   have received little attention from historians.

Millennia of medical orgasm induction, and it all stayed below the radar and remained quite unknown.

The authors listed above, and others in the history of Western medicine,   describe a medical treatment for a complaint that is no longer defined   as a disease but that from at the least the fourth century B.C. until  the American Psychiatric Association dropped the term in 1952, was  known mainly as hysteria.3

Before vibrators, women got hydrotherapy with water pressured by a few meters of gravity.

The famous Father Sebastien Kneipp, another European hydropath, set  great store by the use of pumped water aimed at the pelvis as a treatment  for female complaints.25

In Europe women were very happy with their hydrotherapy.

used  the Priessnitzian douche, a gravity-powered fall of water from a cistern  eighteen feet overhead. Lane, evidently in awe of women’s enthusiasm  for the effects of hydrotherapy, mentions a lady who took the douche in  the form of Niagara Falls, a sixty-foot fall at that point, and remarked,  with some understatement, that "the Water Cure commends itself to the  ladies."

W. B. Oliver, writing in the prestigious London medical   journal Lancet in 1896, said of hydriatic massage that "the mechanical   agency of percussion and vibration" of the water was modified by its  temperature, so that when the jets of water strike the surface of the skin  or "when it is applied in the form of a traveling douche accompanied by  a vibratory form of massage, the vasomotor system is much more powerfully   affected than by any form of still bathing."31

American doctors were concerned about the professional dignity:

He  had reservations, however, about what he called "local irrigation" to relieve   pelvic congestion in women, not because he thought it ineffective,  but because he deemed it a threat to the decorum of the attending physician:   patients stood in front of the doctor "receiving the column of water  alternately, or as circumstances dictate, upon the spine and anterior surface   of the body-a procedure somewhat startling to the Anglo-American   sense of propriety, and scarcely in accord with our notions of professional   dignity."26

Horseback riding also helped to get women’s juices going to cure them from hysteria

Another English spa of the second half of the nineteenth century provided   horseback exercise, a traditional treatment for hysteria, to its  women patients as an adjunct to hydrotherapy.28

No water therapy for men?

The reported enthusiasm of women for the douche is not surprising.  A jet of pumped water aimed at the male genitalia is more likely to  produce pain than pleasure, but the use of water as a female masturbatory   method is well documented, although in this century it is apparently   employed only by a minority.

It is interesting that there is no major concern with the male orgasm. Easily available orgasms for males might reduce tension, increase happiness, induce relaxation, take the edge off men’s harassment, and even reduce rape.  In spite of this being a difficult project to get funding for, there probably is some research . I would be grateful for people to provide me links to such research.

Medical induction of orgasm is not prostitution?

In this text it is quite clear that women who  need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm are thought to be making unfair   and unreasonable demands on their male partners, and that life would  be simpler for all concerned if they would simply adjust to the androcentric   model and have their orgasms vaginally. Lowen wrote at a time  when it was no longer possible to simply hand off the job of producing  orgasm to a physician or midwife. When the one-to-one confrontation  cannot be avoided, Lowen expects the woman to yield.

This raises another question about orgasmic treatment as a medical  procedure: its parallels with prostitution. There have been many arguments,   historical and modem, regarding whether it should be legal for  women and men to sell the service of producing orgasm. Some feminists  in this and previous centuries have argued that there cannot be prostitution   without systematic degradation of its practitioners.3 In the case of  Western physicians, the legal question apparently never arose, although,  as we have seen, there was some controversy within the profession as to  the propriety of vulvular massage. Physicians, unlike prostitutes, did not  lose status by providing sexual services, in part because the character of  these services was camouflaged both by the disease paradigms constructed  around female sexuality and by the comforting belief that only penetration   was sexually stimulating to women. Thus the speculum and the tampon   were originally more controversial in medical circles than was the  vibrator. The aura of respectability that physicians cast over their provision   of sexual services suggests that the task of producing orgasm is not  in itself demeaning; performing it did not cause loss of caste for its elite  practitioners, who were capable of disguising its earthy character.

What is hysteria?

Unofficially, a host of inoffensive synonyms for “hysterical” have appeared: functional, nonorganic, psychogenic, medically unexplained.

“Medically unexplained” and “functional” encompass a broader swath of distress than just conversion disorder — by some accounts, patients with medically unexplained symptoms account for up to 40 percent of all primary care consultations. But clinicians seeking to avoid the wrath of patients who do not appreciate being told that their debilitating seizures are hysterical in origin also use these blander terms. Is Hysteria Real? Brain Images Say Yes | NYT

Sexual satisfaction and orgasm, a cure-all?

applying the  douche to the "inner surface of the thighs" was an effective treatment of  the sequelae of "imperfect or unsatisfactory intercourse."54

In melancholia,  neurasthenia, hysteria, and "other nervous affections, there is no weapon  equal to the douche in restorative power."55

What is impressive, however, is that the androcentric paradigm of  sexuality-that sex consists of penetration (usually of the vagina) to male  orgasm-is a fixed point in the otherwise shifting sands of Western medical   opinion. By 193o Freud’s notion that women had two types of orgasms,   clitoral and vaginal, of which only the latter was mature and  healthy, had become the dominant paradigm of normative female sexuality.   It was to persist well into the r 970s.

When physicians from John Pechey to David Reuben have instructed   men to stimulate the clitoris, this advice has been given mainly  in the context of a prelude or adjunct to coitus. There typically is great  concern that the male partner not be significantly inconvenienced.

orgasm usually does relieve such symptoms as pelvic hyperemia,   sleeplessness, anxiety, headaches, and nervousness. At the very  worst, the physicians in question have been true to the Hippocratic injunction   to do no harm.

As Nathaniel  Highmore tells us, vulvular massage was difficult to learn, an obstacle removed   by the invention of the vibrator in the nineteenth century. Hysterical   patients must have been a good source of cash flow, since they  were in no mortal danger from their illness and required regular treatment.

Medicalization to avoid facing  sexual repression

As long as female orgasm could  be medicalized, it did not have to be discussed, which would have called  uncomfortable attention to its apparent conflict with the norm of coitus.

This purported disease and its sister ailments  displayed a symptomatology consistent with the normal functioning of  female sexuality, for which relief, not surprisingly, was obtained through  orgasm, either through intercourse in the marriage bed or by means of  massage on the physician’s table.

The demand for treatment had two sources: the proscription on  female masturbation as unchaste and possibly unhealthful, and the failure   of androcentrically defined sexuality to produce orgasm regularly in  most women.4

  Blame husbands and boyfriend’s performance

Celia Roberts and her  coauthors, studying the faking of orgasm in a sample of college women,  found that "in almost every woman’s interview these practices were
mentioned as something they did, at least some of the time." Male interviewees   were nearly all certain that no woman had ever faked orgasm  with them, an observation about which the authors remark, "Clearly, the  refined performances which women are giving are extremely convincing."   Female subjects explained their behavior by referring to a greater  interest in preserving the stability of their relationships than in reaching  orgasm on every occasion of intercourse.16

Vibrator, easier then manual vulvar massage

Making women orgasm: a job that nobody else wanted

This relegated the task of relieving the symptoms of female  arousal to medical treatment, which defined female orgasm under clinical   conditions as the crisis of an illness, the "hysterical paroxysm." In
effect, doctors inherited the task of producing orgasm in women because  it was a job nobody else wanted.

Like many husbands, doctors were reluctant  to inconvenience themselves in performing what was, after all, a routine  chore. The job required skill and attention;

Vibrators made a hard chore easier.

The vibrator and its predecessor technologies-particularly manual and  hydriatic massage-made it easy for physicians to provide the relief that  was not otherwise accessible to many women. The vibrator was convenient,   portable, and fast and thus enjoyed a considerable, if brief, popularity   as a medical instrument before its discovery by consumers and by  the makers of erotic films.

For the affliction commonly called hysteria (literally, "womb  disease") and known in his volume as praefocatio matricis or "suffocation  of the mother," the physician advised as follows:
When these symptoms indicate, we think it necessary to ask a midwife to  assist, so that she can massage the genitalia with one finger inside, using oil  of lilies, musk root, crocus, or [something] similar. And in this way the  afflicted woman can be aroused to the paroxysm.

This kind of stimulation  with the finger is recommended by Galen and Avicenna, among others,  most especially for widows, those who live chaste lives, and female religious,   as Gradus [Ferrari da Gradi] proposes;

Nowadays cheap vibrators can be bought discretely at any drug store or department store, for muscle tension in your shoulders . No physician or midwife are needed. Just a very discrete place and a little electric power.

all quotes from The Technology of Orgasm: "Hysteria," the Vibrator, and Women’s Sexual Satisfaction (Johns Hopkins Studies in the History of Technology)

• Don’t miss part 1: The history of vibrators: (1) orgasms as medical therapy for hysteria

Vibrators replaced power douches and doctor’s finger stimulation as treatment for female hysteria

Pelvic Massage

By the mid to late 19th century, hysteria (or sometimes female hysteria) came to refer to what is today generally considered to be sexual dysfunction. Typical treatment was massage of the patient’s genitalia by the physician and, later, by vibrators or water sprays to cause orgasm.

Female Hysteria

Female hysteria is a common medical diagnosis, made exclusively in women, which is today rarely recognized by modern medical authorities as a medical disorder. Its diagnosis and treatment were routine for many hundreds of years in Western Europe. Hysteria was widely discussed in the medical literature of the 19th century. Women considered to be suffering from it exhibited a wide array of symptoms including faintness, nervousness, insomnia, fluid retention, heaviness in abdomen, muscle spasm, shortness of breath, irritability, loss of appetite for food or sex, and “a tendency to cause trouble”.

“Hysterical Paroxysm” (orgasm).

Since ancient times women considered to be suffering from hysteria would sometimes undergo “pelvic massage” — manual stimulation of the genitals by the doctor until the patient experienced “hysterical paroxysm” (orgasm).

Vibrators, water jets …,  the technology of orgasm

for centuries, troubled — or troubling — women were diagnosed with “hysteria.” the classic treatment for this vague malady was inducement of the “hysteric paroxysm” — known to us contemporary types as the orgasm. according to Rachel maines’s wryly hilarious history, the first mechanical vibrators were labor-saving devices for doctors tired of inducing orgasm in their patients manually. who knew? this book is clearly her dissertation & primarily intended for academics, but i found it mind-blowing & frequently quite amusing. i frequently recommend it to friends & colleagues looking for a quick, smart, engaging read.  Permalink

The Technology of Orgasm: “Hysteria,” the Vibrator, and Women’s Sexual Satisfaction (Johns Hopkins Studies in the History of Technology) | Buy at Amazon.com

Maines is a good historian, and she recounts the historical medicalization of female orgasm, terming its inducement “the job nobody wanted.” For hundreds of years, physicians or midwives were paid to stimulate manually the clitoris of women suffering from “hysteria” and thereby to bring about a therapeutic paroxism. Since this was a time-consuming task, doctors turned to hydrotherapy and then to electric powered vibrators to shorten the time necessary to induce such relief on each patient. HMOs would be proud. 1

Vibrators and clitoral massage by physicians are not popular topics to win tenure at US Universities

It’s a pity this book got the author sacked , August 16, 1999

For her pains (the book took 20 years to research and write), according to Wired magazine, the author was apparently promptly sacked from the faculty of Clarkson U on publication. A great pity and another blow for academic freedom on subjects around sexuality. Permalink

• First Chapter: ‘The Technology of Orgasm’: read the first chapter for free at the New York Times.

Summary

• Physicians manually masturbating women as a therapy for hysteria. The advent of the vibrator turned the physician’s hard one hour chore into a 5-10 minute automatic treatment.
• This type of treatment has been prominent for 2000 years, as we will show in part #2 of this post
• This treatment presumed that penile penetration by the husband was not satisfactory enough, certainly a taboo topic.
• Dr Rachel P. Maines always had serious problems when presenting her academic speeches. Induction of orgasm with vibrators as an academic topic?
• Before vibrators, water therapy (with water pressured by gravity) performed the same tasks.
• Also the androcentric model of sex considered only penile penetration and vaginal orgasms as normative. This is why the non-penetrative procedure could stay under the radar for so long.

Human-Stupidity Analysis

• Somehow sexual repression found an unconscious back-door. At least women from privileged classes could get their medically prescribed “Hysterical Paroxysm” on a weekly basis.
• Strangely, physician induced female orgasms were never considered prostitution. Nobody considered the doctors “sex slaves” due to the social status of physicians.
• This of course begs the question, why masturbation was not a favored skill that would be taught in school, to avoid hysteria.
• What about the men? Don’t they need orgasms? What happens to sexually frustrated men? They are losers, so nobody cares?

• These questions are quite serious, now that the US army prevents their soldiers from procuring prostitutes for years on end. But then put a few female soldiers in the midst of testosterone crazed killing machines deprived of any other outlet.
• Anyone does research about soldiers needing orgasms? or “losers” and other celibates in civil life needing orgasms?

What about male orgasms and sexual satisfaction?

Most of the debates among clinicians have been over proper methods of  treatment, including the production of orgasm. If marriage and intercourse   failed to cure hysterical women, some doctors, at least, were convinced   that responsibility for producing the necessary therapeutic effect  rested with them. It is interesting that though marriage and intercourse  were sometimes recommended for hysterical males, I have found no accounts   of therapeutic massage of the male genitalia by physicians.

Vibrators Cured Hysteria but We Are Still Hysterical

In 1859, it was believed that a quarter of women suffered from hysteria. Many required constant care from physicians – pelvic massage, water massage, bed rest, and expensive spa treatments — in order to “manage” their symptoms. Hysteria was considered a legitimate disease by the medical community and was studied the world over by preeminent psychologists, including Freud.

How did this disease, which purportedly affected so many women and was studied extensively by some of the greatest medical minds of the nineteenth and twentieth centuries and is now the focus of two new Hollywood movies, manage to disappear?[...]

Hysteria was once the domain of upper class women, those who had the means to undertake costly medical treatments, but the invention of the home vibrator had dramatically reduced the cost of the “cure” so practitioners were less invested in promoting hysteria as a disease. And as greater awareness of the disease led to more middle and lower class women diagnosed with hysteria, the disorder simply began to fall out of fashion. In 1952 the American Psychiatrist Association removed hysteria from its list of recognized diseases. Now, no one has it.

Above quote from Vibrators Cured Hysteria but We Are Still Hysterical, where we also found several of the historical pictures.

all quotes from The Technology of Orgasm: “Hysteria,” the Vibrator, and Women’s Sexual Satisfaction (Johns Hopkins Studies in the History of Technology)

Japan’s enjo kosai are the most famous teenagers who have sex with older men in order to buy stylish goods, but research reveals this relationship around the world. What seems to signal a loss of morals (for many commentators) is that the teenagers in question are not ‘poor’, since poverty is seen to ’excuse’ selling sex. See recent ideas about the desire to keep whore stigma away from women engaging in transactional sex. [..]

Katarzyna Roslaniec shot Mall Girls at a shopping center in central Poland, where four teenage girls turn tricks with men they call sponsors. ’Look at a guy’s shoes, his watch and his phone and you can tell if it’s expensive. It’s a start, right?’ Sex is exchanged for products like blouses, not for cash, and is provided in mall toilets or cars in the parking lot (Poland Looks Inward).

Mall Girls (Galerianki) 1/8 | YouTube

You can see all 8 parts of the film on YouTube. But seemingly no subtitles 2 3 4 5 6 7 8. If you google "filesonic galerianki.2009" you will find it in polish and you will need to get the galerianki (mall girl) subtitles. Drag and drop the subtitles into the vlc video player.

Storyline

Shopping malls – today’s place of creating desires. Best jewelry, clothes, shoes. Unaffordable by young girls, but they "work" to get themselves sponsors for new items.   International Movie Data Base //Trailer (polish, no subtitles)

Galerianki / Mall girls (Katarzyna Roslaniec) DVD R2 NON-USA FORMAT

Fourteen-year-old Alicja enters a new middle-school class. She is a wise and prudent girl who finds herself up against a group of arrogant classmates decked out in the latest fashions and accessories. In the beginning these girls make her life impossible, snubbing her and sneering at her. Alicja later finds out how they manage to have such luxuries and be so trendy: after school, in fact, they frequent malls where customers choose and buy the glittering objects in the showcases and where they can meet young men who “sponsor them”. Alicja thus begins to sell herself in exchange for a new mobile phone…MALL GIRLS (Galerianki)

Human-Stupidity analysis

• We hesitate a little to publish this. Information about underage prostitution will get feminists another goal to rally against.  These transactions seem legal in Poland.  Of course feminists will find ways to promote more government surveillance and heavy penalties to prohibit such consensual agreements. Consent, rape & minors. What is consent to sex? * Feminist arguments against prostitution debunked
• Underage adolescents who actively offer sex in exchange for luxury items. Not the downtrodden impoverished hungry girl forced to prostitute herself by hunger, nor by a greedy pimp. Impossible according to feminist theory.  Oh yes, it happens in Japan, too.
• The antifeminist mentions how feminists hate a free sex market
• The teens were not happy about their sex with ‘sponsors’.  But Alla screwed up sex with the inexperienced school boy crush just as well. Inexperience about how to have satisfying sexual relations is a problem. Lack of advice by experienced older sex positive  people.
• Those worried about Teenage morals and health could offer VOLUNTARY counseling for the teens. Treat citizens of all ages with respect instead of using police state methods of repression. Should police really substitute parental surveillance?
• Those who think this is immoral and not good adolescent behavior are probably right. But the solution in most countries is that government imprisons men for decades for something parental education  should take care of.
• Smart phones and designer clothes should not be so important for teenagers. Something should fill the void in these shallow teens. But we object to the modern feminist moralist solution to use legal police and court terror to prevent teenagers from finding sponsors to fulfill their fashion desires?
• Paid sex happening in shopping center toilets? Sex with the school crush in a stinking ruin? Full legality, privacy, non-shaming sex positive environment could provide better,safer, more hygienic conditions.
• Discussion about prostitution rarely deals with the frustration of men who can not get sex. Men who can not get the satisfaction and inner strength gained from easily accessible sex. Even nerds and losers feel the pain of, well, being despised losers. In our modern discussion nobody cares about frustration of men and boys.
• Yes, there is another movie "Piggies" about adolescent boys that have sex for money. But the moral panic is always about girls, not about men.

Read more:

• Polish Teenagers turn to Prostitution | Polish Forum
• Adolescent prostitution in Poland. Trade Sex for Smart Phone.| Der Spiegel
• Feminist arguments against prostitution debunked | Human Stupidity
• "Belle de Jour": Cancer Scientist financed Doctorate with Prostitution| Human Stupidity 

Across the country, the approach ranges from abstinence until marriage is the only acceptable choice, contraceptives don’t work and premarital sex is physically and emotionally harmful, to abstinence is usually best, but if you must have sex, here are some ways to protect yourself from pregnancy and disease. The latter has been called “disaster prevention” education by sex educators who wish they could teach more; a dramatic example of the former comes in a video called “No Second Chances,” which has been used in abstinence-only courses. In it, a student asks a school nurse, “What if I want to have sex before I get married?” To which the nurse replies, “Well, I guess you’ll just have to be prepared to die.”   [...] Teaching Good Sex

Children and adolescents think that porn sex, with gagging, anal sex, coming in the face is the norm.

There is a lack of sex education that teaches kids to critically consume porn and understand that real sex is not exactly like in genitally focused hard core porn.

These very important issues will be described in detail in the following press reports and scientific papers.

Human-Stupidity Side notes: 

The legal morass of idiotic adolescent sex laws and CP laws

Human-Stupidity can not resist to mention taboo issues forgotten in the newspaper reports:  there are serious legal pitfalls to adolescent and childhood sexuality, due to child porn witch hunt and teenage sexuality taboos. For children to avoid these, they would have to be actively taught that groping a girl’s ass is sexual assault, consensual doctor play is a felony, consensual adolescent sex is a heinous crime (depending on complex age of consent laws with even more comples age of consent exceptions.)

• Consult a lawyer before playing doctor. Perverse sex laws traumatize children. Every child needs a personal attorney at all times to avoid arrest for sex crimes at age 6.  
  • 6 year old boy plays ‘doctor’ with classmate, charged with felony first degree sexual assault 
  • Was NJ Schoolyard Stunt ‘Horseplay’ or Criminal Sexual Conduct?
• Teenage sexuality: The immense complexity of local laws, state lines and international travel

Furthermore Human-Stupidity has the tenacity to dare mention that children must never see anything sexual or erotic related to their own age but are obliged to watch only big tit and big dicks in over 18 year old porn.  Worse, children or adolescents photographing themselves is a heinous crime that somehow victimizes themselves according to the voodoo theory of child porn.

• Sexting: Courts victimize Teens with child porn charges for exchanging their own nude photos

Any child or adolescent that would creatively dare to re-enact some porn scenes in the privacy of their home, with their friend and some home camera, will find out that this is one of the most heinous crimes in existence. Even if the behavior is harmless fully dressed dancing (see Knox vs. USA) or stripping, even if it is filming adolescent sex that is perfectly legal according to age of consent laws, it is heinous crime.  Filming harmless acts people do all the time is a worse crime then beating up people and comparable to clubbing someone to death.

I wonder why nobody ever mentions that children see child porn all the time. Children just need to look into the bath room mirror while they shower, or look at their partner in doctor play. How to explain child pornography laws to children seems an impossible task. Even more impossible because to a rational person from another planet these laws make no sense whatsoever.

I really wish that the sex educators could explain such aspects of adult idiocy to critically thinking children.

But I digress, I am sorry. Let us return to the issue of this post: Children and adolescents use porn to learn about sexuality, because sex education in school sucks.

Detailed press reports about sex education and children’s porn use

The X-rated alternative to inadequate sex education

New research suggests pupils look to pornography for answers

It involves anal sex as a matter of course. It can include images of women being choked or gagged. It is not uncommon for it to feature an ambiguous version of consent, in which "no" can mean "that sounds like fun".

And yet pornography is increasingly serving as a substitute for adequate sex education, new research has found.

Researchers Maree Crabbe and David Corlett conducted 140 interviews internationally, with pupils, teachers and professionals from the porn industry, and presented their findings in London last week. On average, they said, most pupils will watch porn for the first time at the age of 11. [...]

The researchers argue that the failure of sex education to address the positive aspects of sex drives pupils to seek further explanation in porn.

"Discussion of sex and intimacy is too often avoided in schools," the Australian researchers said, presenting their findings at a conference at London University’s Institute of Education this week. "Porn has become a cultural mediator in how young people are understanding and experiencing sex. Porn is our most prominent sex educator."

And the sex education community admits there is truth in these findings. Mary Clegg (pictured, right), chair of the British Association of Sexual Educators, confirms this. "A lot of our sex education is based on a don’t-do model," she said. "But young people are hungry for more explicit information. They’re curious and they’re hormone-driven." [...]

Pupils similarly assume that practices such as anal sex and ejaculation in women’s faces are a normal part of any sexual encounter. "The first time I had sex, I decided to go anal," one boy said. "She didn’t like that."

The researchers reported that 88 per cent of scenes in porn films show physical aggression, such as choking, gagging or spanking. This aggression is overwhelmingly directed at female performers. Nonetheless, the women always appear to enjoy the experience.

"Some guys have this perception that, if they just do it anyway, it’ll be amazing," one teenage girl said. "They just try and slip it in the other hole. It’s not really about asking any more – it’s all about doing and hoping for the best."

"You want to grab her hair and pull it back," a male interviewee added. "I mean, it’s a turn-on."

Acknowledging the difficulty of preventing access to porn, the researchers suggested that sex education lessons should therefore equip teenagers with the skills necessary to evaluate what they see.

"To be unable to critique imagery is equivalent to being illiterate in the modern world," they said. "We need to help young people to resist peer-group pressure to consume porn or to respond to partners’ requests for sex they’ve seen in porn."

Pornography is replacing sex education

A rising number of children are learning about sex from watching pornography because sex education lessons are inadequate, researchers have found.

The average age at which children first watch pornography is just 11, interviews with 140 pupils, teachers and people working in the porn industry also revealed.

Australian researchers Maree Crabbe and David Corlett said children were turning to adult films because schools were not handling the positive aspects of sex.  [...]

Mary Clegg, chair of the British Association of Sexual Educators, agreed there was a shortfall in sex education at schools.

"A lot of our sex education is based on a don’t-do model," she said.

"But young people are hungry for more explicit information. They’re curious and they’re hormone-driven."  [...]

Pupils also appeared to believe that sexual practices shown in porn were normal features of sexual relationships.

The researchers said pupils should be taught how to evaluate porn in sex education lessons.

"To be unable to critique imagery is equivalent to being illiterate in the modern world," they added.

"We need to help young people to resist peer-group pressure to consume porn of to respond to partners’ requests for sex they’ve seen in porn."

Earlier this week, a survey found more young people were having sex under the age of consent. Among 16 to 24-year-old women, more than a quarter had lost their virginity under the age of 16.

Diane Abbott, Labour’s Shadow Health Minister, said: “The rising numbers of girls having under-age sex is alarming. It is not a cost-free phenomenon. [...]

"Government needs to respond to spiralling under-age sex, not with pointless schemes to teach abstinence, but with better PSHE teaching in schools for both girls and boys.”

Meanwhile in the old repressive USA, NYT Magazine reports

In its breadth, depth and frank embrace of sexuality as, what Vernacchio calls, a “force for good” — even for teenagers — this sex-ed class may well be the only one of its kind in the United States. “There is abstinence-only sex education, and there’s abstinence-based sex ed,” said Leslie Kantor, vice president of education for Planned Parenthood Federation of America. “There’s almost nothing else left in public schools.”

Across the country, the approach ranges from abstinence until marriage is the only acceptable choice, contraceptives don’t work and premarital sex is physically and emotionally harmful, to abstinence is usually best, but if you must have sex, here are some ways to protect yourself from pregnancy and disease. The latter has been called “disaster prevention” education by sex educators who wish they could teach more; a dramatic example of the former comes in a video called “No Second Chances,” which has been used in abstinence-only courses. In it, a student asks a school nurse, “What if I want to have sex before I get married?” To which the nurse replies, “Well, I guess you’ll just have to be prepared to die.”   [...]

Two boys who told me they’d been masturbating to Internet porn since middle school said they found themselves disoriented at the real-life encounters they had with girls, but Vernacchio helped them grasp the disjuncture. Pornography “gives boys the impression that the girl is there to do any position you want, or to please you, or to, you know, role-play to your liking,” one of them said. “But yesterday, when Mr. V. said there is no romanticism or intimacy in porn, porn is strictly sexual — I’d never thought about that.” [...]

Pleasure in sex ed was a major topic last November at one of the largest sex-education conferences in the country, sponsored by the education arm of Planned Parenthood of Greater Northern New Jersey. “Porn is the model for today’s middle-school and high-school students,” Paul Joannides said in the keynote speech. “And none of us is offering an alternative that’s even remotely appealing.”  [...]

One of sex educators’ big problems, Joannides told the New Jersey audience, is that they define their role as the “messengers of all the things that can go wrong with sex.” The attention paid to S.T.I.’s, pregnancy, rape and discrimination based on sexual orientation, while understandable, comes at a cost, he says. “We’re worrying about which bathrooms transgender students should use while teens are worrying whether they should shave all the way or leave a landing strip,” he said. “They’re worrying if someone special will find them sexually attractive, whether they will be able to do it as well as porn, whether others have the same kind of sexual feelings they do.”  [...]

For instance, in addition to pulling condoms over bananas — which has become a de rigueur contraception lesson among “liberal” educators — young people need to hear specifics about making the method work for them. “We don’t tell them: ‘Look, there are different shapes of condoms. Get sampler packs, experiment.’ That would be entering pleasure into the conversation, and we don’t want that.” [...]

at the conference, an educator from Pennsylvania told me that one school asked her to teach a sex-ed class but forbade her to use the words “sex, ” “sexy” or “tampon.” (She declined.) A chipper young Unitarian sex educator from Brooklyn, Kirsten deFur, who led a workshop titled “Don’t Forget the Good Stuff,” gave tips on how her colleagues could avoid uttering the words “pleasure” and “orgasm.” “Ask open-ended questions about what feels good,” deFur recommended. And, she added, the P-word might even be acceptable in the proper context: “If you have healthy sex, it’ll be more pleasurable,” an instructor might dare to say. [...]

“The campaign for abstinence in the schools and communities may seem trivial, an ideological nuisance,” Michelle Fine and Sara McClelland wrote in a 2006 study in The Harvard Educational Review, “but at its core it is . . . a betrayal of our next generation, which is desperately in need of knowledge, conversation and resources to negotiate the delicious and treacherous terrain of sexuality in the 21st century.”

It’s axiomatic, however, that parents who support richer sex education don’t make the same ruckus with school officials as those who oppose it. “We need to be there at the school boards and say: ‘Guess where kids are getting their messages about sex from? They’re getting it from porn,’ ” Joannides exhorted. “All we’re talking about is just being able to acknowledge that sex is a good thing in the right circumstances, that it’s a normal thing.”

Of course, sex isn’t all pleasure or all peril, it’s both (and sometimes both at once, though that lesson may have to wait for grad school). Vernacchio has a way of getting at its positive potential without ignoring the fact that, however good sex may feel, it’s sometimes best left off the menu.

Source: Teaching Good Sex | NYT Magazine

• Kids turning to porn for sex education: study

In a recent New York Times Magazine story on sex education, the vice-president of education for the Planned Parenthood Federation of America said, “There is abstinence-only sex education, and there’s abstinence-based sex ed. There’s almost nothing else left in public schools.”    Kids turning to porn for sex education: study

“To Catch a Predator” witch hunt by NBC Dateline & “Perverted Justice”" was a successful TV series. Chris Hansen enticed many people (overwhelmingly men) to meet with female and men teen “jail bait” and to get them violently arrested by Swat. To understand the irony of the following spoof you might want to first read “To Catch a Predator” witch hunt by NBC Dateline & “Perverted Justice”".

To Catch a Predator — Hot for Teacher (Video)

Some men’s rights proponents (the antifeminist) would disagree here. They think women “sex offenders” like the ones above should not be cut any slack, if men in the same situation get humiliatingly arrested. We actually agree: Human Stupidity, in its 50 post series about Teenage Sexuality suggested to invert the double standard. Girls mature faster and thus need less protection from sex (if they need any protection at all). Ancient wisdom of the old knew this: all over the world, minimum marriage age for girls was lower then for boys.

Don’t miss the YouTube Spoof of “Catch a Predator”: Absurdity of Underage Sex Entrapment, a hilarious spoof of a healthy male lusting after willing 17 year old pussy.

Adult Child Sex

Adult child sex is a very different issue. Like the following spoof, we take issue with modern pedo-hysteria. It is generally assumed that the average adult male is a danger to pre-pubescent children. We believe that the vast majority of normal males have no sexual interest whatsoever in pre-pubescent children.

Pedophile hunters are more dangerous then most pedophiles (who might feel an attraction without the need of acting it out).

• Dangerous pedophile vigilantes cheer German Dad, 47, for castrating the boyfriend, 57, of his 17-year-old daughter

Paedogeddon Video

The word “pedophile” has been distorted on purpose. We are interested in discussing post-pubescent adolescent sexuality.

• What is a Pedophile? Hebephile, Ephebophile, Teleiophile, Infantophile

Brass Eye paedophile blasted into space (Video)

We leave the discussion of child sex to nambla.org. We have no interest in defending legalization of adult child sex.

But, The cult of childhood made an interesting point that in ancient Greece, the cradle of Western civilization, adult men had sex with fairly young boys and we are not aware of reports of severe damage to ancient youth. This is consistent with the findings of the Rind Study.

The Pedo-Files – Brass Eye (Video)

But, again, we are not interested in defending adult-child sexuality. But we think that the hysteria and penalties are way overblown (Judge Weinstein). There seem to be scientific findings that the seemingly unnatural adult-child sexuality might be harmless, or much less damaging then we are made to believe (Rind Study) and that the availability of child porn can help reduce actual child abuse (Milton Diamond).

We have no special interest in defending legalization of adult-child sexuality. But the above findings further bolster our opinion that sex between adults and *consenting post-pubertal teenage adolescents is harmless enough to be decriminalized.  Yes, fathers and mothers should have a say, but the government has more pressing safety and crime issues to deal with then protecting post-pubertal adolescents against their own consensual sex acts.

Sexuality between adolescent or child peers

Sexuality between adolescents and between children of similar age might be unwise, but really should not be a criminal issue.  Government, police and judges should not be concerned with kids playing doctor. Our 50 posts about Teenage Sexuality deal with this over and over, how children get victimized by adults’ stupid sexuality laws.

• Teenage sexuality: The immense complexity of local laws, state lines and international travel

Romeo and Juliet laws of course raise questions of age discrimination. They raise the question why adolescent girls should be forced to act out their sexuality with even more immature adolescent boys and be deprived of the option to choose older, more mature men.

Creepy Actor’s Creepy Marriage Should Be Illegal

Here’s the deal — Hutchison is 51 years old, and his new bride Courtney Alexis Stodden is a mere 16 years old!!! That’s right. She’s just a child and yet their "consensual" marriage to one another is as legal as they come apparently, thanks to none other than Courtney’s own mother!

Way to be a pervy creep and ruin a young girl’s life, Hutchison! Way to look out for your daughter, Moms! Is anyone sane in this really freakish situation?

How do people know that a happy marriage with a mature loving men will ruin a girl’s life? Nowadays, Romeo and Juliet would both be arrested, and the "Blue Lagoon" heroes (t least the boy) would be jailed after their return to "civilization".

• Dirty Old Men Marry Jailbait, Sexually Liberated Cougars Marry Young Men
• Michel Temer (70), new Vice-President of Brazil was 63 when he married Marcela Temer at age 20. Borderline Pedophilia or healthy human sexuality?

Her parents should have been arrested for letting a 51 year old PERVERT MOLEST their MINOR CHILD! Because mo matter how "old" she looks, she is just that…a child! For them to marry means that at some time he was putting the "moves" on her, or even dating her! That is ILLEGAL in most states here! GAG! I JUST THREW UP IN MY MOUTH AT THE THOUGHT! YouTube commentator

Evolutionary psychologist explains

Evolutionary psychologist Robert Kurzban explains the human propensity to meddle in other people’s private lives, to outlaw victimless sex "crimes"

1. FIRST comes an inner moral feeling (which usually serves to increase one’s own reproductive fitness).
2. THEN, after the fact,we find some logical reasoning to justify our moral feelings. We invent victims even if there are none

Kurzban explains how, in a small community, everyone gains reproductive advantage by restricting other people’s sexual liberty.

Finding victims where there are none

In the above YouTube video, we see a happy couple with conservative attitudes about virgin marriage. Cruel, anti-teenage sexuality age-of-consent laws frequently destroy such a love affair with cruelty

Thousands of men, and a few women men have their life destroyed in similar situations. A unholy union of religious conservatives and repressive feminists decide, against Álexis’ will, that she is a poor victim. That adolescent Alexis Stoddenis a child [17] that can not consent* to sex. But in some jurisdiction she magically has maturity to consent to sex with boys of similar age, while in other states 2 adolescents are raping each other when engaging in consensual sex. Systematic language manipulation changes the meamings of words like rape*, consent*, child*, pedophile* etc. Our language has been distorted so much, that: had Doug fondled her, before marriage, with full consent, he might have as well raped her forcibly, it would be the same. The same punishment, and the same press reports ("Actor sentenced for raping child"). Doug Hutchinson was wise enough to avoid this, but thousands of men languish in jail for consensual sex with adolescent "children". The Antifeminist has feminism-is-sexual-trade-union-theory to explain such institutionalized cruel interference in private bedroom affairs.

‘Green Mile’ Actor Doug Hutchison, 51, Marries Aspiring Singer, 16

"We’re aware that our vast age difference is extremely controversial," the couple said in a statement released by their spokesperson. "But we’re very much in love and want to get the message out there that true love can be ageless."
According to the Clark County, Nevada Marriage Bureau, both marriage license applicants must be at least 18 years of age. But minors (below the age of 18) are able to obtain a license with the consent of a parent or legal guardian — reasoning that at least one of Stodden’s parents approves of their daughter’s May-December marriage.
Hutchison’s young wife is a former beauty pageant queen and hopes to become the next big thing out of Nashville. Marrying a much older D-list actor is certainly one way to do it — although the couple insists that their union is based purely on genuine love.

We wish the happy Courtney Alexis Stodden and Doug Hutchinson good luck in their planned reality TV show

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More condemnation

It is interesting how many people know what is best for Courtney Stodden and want to be Courtney’s substitute mother and decide for her. They can not imprison Courtney, her mother or Dough. But, be aware that thousands of men and boys (and a few women) are  in prison and on live-long sex offender lists for doing almost the same. [1]

And, of course, if Doug or Courtney herself would photograph themselves nude, they would face mandatory minimum 5 year jail sentences. Maybe you don’t see the wisdom of these child porn laws that (allegedly) are for Courtney’s protection.

 Creepy actor, 51, remains creepy by marrying 16 year old girl.

Well, he’s pretty creepy in real life as it turns out. The actor has just married a 16 year old girl. Disgusting. I don’t care how “in love” they are – or how he tries to justify what he’s done – it’s disgusting, and it should be illegal. [...]

Horrible. What’s even more gross – is that it actually IS ILLEGAL… but her parents gave permission for their daughter to marry, making it legal. Great parenting.

One should question why this is illegal. And why thousands of men languish in prison for having done almost the same. Dough Hutchinson would be in prison for "child rape", had he as much as fondled his bride before marriage.

A Creepy Actor + A Good Christian Girl = An Unfit Mother

We can think he’s a pig, and she is a little skanky, but I think the person to be questioned about how this even happened is Krista Stodden, who is Courtney’s mom. She signed a legal consent for her underage daughter to get married and says, “They are very much in love and we are so supportive of this.” I think this woman should be ashamed of herself.

What can these two possibly have to talk about and how can her mother not think it is disgusting. I don’t know these people, but my initial response to this story was one of horror. This poor child has been sold to an old man by her fame whore mother in an attempt to fast track her daughter’s career. It’s wrong and I blame the mother for allowing such a thing to happen.

I am curious about how they met, how long they have known each other, and how long they have been having sex. Hugh Hefner is famous for being with much younger women, but they are not children. This guy is gross, this girl is on her way to a porn career, and this mother should have her head checked. Stopping this train wreck will require more than keeping the faith.

What’s The Deal With Doug Hutchison’s Child Bride, Courtney Alexis Stodden?

I’ve been saying WTF since this story dropped. I’m not convinced the details of this union are as they’re being told. She’s a virgin, she’s a good Christian girl, she loves her new old man (who is four years older than her father, BTW), blah, blah, blah. I can’t fathom why a teenager would marry a man who is a little over a decade away from claiming social security or why her parents would agree to let their underage daughter get married in the first place. The only way I can make sense of this is to believe there must have been a payoff somewhere along the way. Conspiracy theory, I know, but do you have a better explanation? And don’t say it’s love because love at 16 is often unfulfilling and hardly sustaining. Someone should have grounded this kid, made her wash her face and banned her from wearing makeup, heels and push-up bras for at least a month.

I’m pretty sure the jokes on us and we’ll all soon learn that Courtney is actually a 32-year-old ex-stripper/divorcee from East Backwoods, Who Cares who went along with this charade for a large sum of money that she plans on using to get Air Jordans for her kids and breast implants for her herself. Until the real story comes out and the truth prevails (as it always seems to do) here’s a gallery of Courtney Alexis Stodden Hutchison. Eww. Prepare to be stupefied by the photos and appalled by her latest music video, “Car Candy.”

Related content:

• ‘Lost’ actor on teen bride: ’51 plus 16 equals love’
• ‘Lost’ actor dishes on marriage to 16-year-old
• ‘Green Mile,’ ‘Lost’ actor, 51, weds pop singer, 16
• Teenage Sexuality (48)  Teenage and Underage Sexuality, “the modern witch hunt” said a leading academic researcher.

A girl has a 100% valid state ID, with her photo and signature, and social security card. The ID proves she is 20 years old.  You engage in sex with her, Film it. Sell it. Due to strict liability statutory rape laws there is no way how you can escape prison after it turns out the girl is 15 and conned the state into falsely giving her an ID. People who distribute your perfectly documented porn, of course go to prison.  Even the press is unaware that 100 000 men who downloaded it, with perfect proof of being over 18 years of age, also can go to prison. 

Conclusion: to have sex, watch porn, you at least need to get a US$ 30 000 background check of your partner,  A detective has to get birth records, school records, interview parents and teachers. Even that is not 100% secure. Thus: never have sex, never engage in fondling or indecent behavior and never look at any nude or indecent pictures. Ever.

Society could not function if such strict liability without mens rea were the norm.

Teen porn star Bieyanka Moore’s disaster

In early 2010, Tyler Chanel Evans, a 19-year-old exotic dancer, took under her wing a pretty, homeless girl who said her name was Bieyanka. The girl had been standing for hours outside a convenience store with an overstuffed duffel bag. A few days later, the waif stole Evans’s expired learner’s permit and copied her social security number. 

All quotes from Teen porn star Bieyanka Moore’s disaster, unless stated otherwise.

Bieyanka, it seems, outwitted many people. She wasn’t 20 as she had told Evans, but a 15-year-old runaway from Palm Beach Shores. She persuaded the State of Nevada — perhaps with an adult’s help — to improperly issue her a driver’s license in Evans’s name. And using that license, she duped Miami pornographers into illegally hiring her to have sex onscreen.  Teen porn star Bieyanka Moore’s disaster

A 15 year old girl steals the identity of another girl that helped her when she was lost. Government gives her a legal driver’s license stating her age is 20.

Bieyanka Moore: Besides Doing Porn, 15-Year-Old Runaway Went on Nevada Crime Spree With Adult’s ID

MyspaceTyler Chanel Evans– the real version.​Lawyers for RK Netmedia, owner of porn site Reality Kings, still refuse to concede that a 15-year-old runaway who went missing last year is the same person who starred in one of its hardcore films. But the evidence is getting pretty conclusive. … More >>

Appraising Strict Liability (Oxford Monographs on Criminal Law and Justice)

Then she uses that government ID to do porn movies, and, obviously, to have sex. Whose fault is this?

Of course, the people who have sex and who make porn movies. Behooves them right: why do they do porn movies? They should be in jail anyway! And you should not have sex with someone not your wife and who looks under 35? [*1] [*2].  Before sex, Human-Stupidity.com recommends not only an ID check, but a background check ,by a detective, of school records, birth hospital records and more.

Strict liability and mens rea: go to prison even if you did all possible precautions to avoid a crime

The lawsuit against RK Netmedia, which Sherrita Smalley filed in Miami-Dade court this past December, is still developing. Attorney Grossman says Imber’s LLL Advertising will soon be added as a defendant. Florida criminal law decrees that "a minor’s misrepresentation of his or her age… may not be raised as a defense" in statutory rape prosecution.

This is called "strict liability crime" [1] [2] [3]  [4]

The liability is said to be strict because defendants will be convicted even though they were genuinely ignorant of one or more factors that made their acts or omissions criminal. The defendants may therefore not be culpable in any real way, i.e. there is not even criminal negligence, the least blameworthy level of mens rea. Strict liability (criminal)

Strict liability abuse in sex "crimes". No pharmacist goes to prison for filling prescription of doctor with false diploma

Much less will the pharmacist go to prison if the diploma was correctly signed by a State University registrar.

Strict liability makes sense in minor crimes, if it does not need to be proven a defendant knew that there was a non-parking sign. But would anyone be convicted of a parking violation if he could prove that government had put a "Parking" sign there? No! Such insanity only is valid in criminal sex persecutions, 95% of which are against men. If you read legal literature [1] [2] [3] [4] about lack of "mens rea" and "strict liability", it was never meant as means to imprison men that can prove they did everything to assure they only do legal acts. Even if the man can prove that there was no "No Parking" sign, that is enough to prove his innocence, an explicit sign that parking is allowed would not be needed.

For example, in Pharmaceutical Society of Great Britain v Storkwain (1986) 2 ALL ER 635, a pharmacist supplied drugs to a patient who presented a forged doctor’s prescription, but was convicted even though the House of Lords accepted that the pharmacist was blameless. The justification is that the misuse of drugs is a grave social evil and pharmacists should be encouraged to take even unreasonable care to verify prescriptions before supplying drugs.

If a physician practices medicine for 10 years with a false license, will 3000 pharmacists go off to prison? Of course not. If he can prove he personally saw the doctor and confirmed the prescription, is he liable for a background check of the doctor’s life to see if his license has a legal problem? No. Only men in sex and porn crimes have such responsibility.

Now what is the purpose of this teenage sexuality witch hunt?  A Teenage runaway, forging documents to get a true government ID with wrong identity, name, and age, drives stolen vehicles and gets arrested for mayhem. She urgently needs government protection so men would not "use" her for sex? And even the most conscientious men who check ID (but fail to embark on a US$ 20 000 detective background check) would go to jail for a decade?

Is this not counter any understanding of human rights and due process of any sane American or European person? Is this not a pure witch hunt, totally unjust, unfair, against all legal principles?

So who gets protected by these laws? The Antifeminist proposes that these laws are uniquely designed as pure terror to scare off men from any type of sex other then with their aging feminist peers or spouses. See Robert Kurzban about evolution of moral judgments.

Despite the suit, Bieyanka Moore’s video and stills remain easily viewable on aggregating sites online — despite the pleas of Carissa’s family members, who seven months ago posted on several sites: "This is child pornography, and your site can and will face charges!"

Now it is hard, for a web site, to do background checks on any single person appearing there. Even to be updated about every single law suit and newspaper report. So what guilt do these web sites have?

Of course, Human-Stupidity.com has always stressed that it is very unclear, why distribution and even possession of pictures such as so called child porn should be a crime while videos of atrocious criminal acts are perfectly legal// Best Gore: (Warning: extreme gore and cruelty)

Anyone who downloaded legal porn with 2257 age check can go to prison

I think most people are unaware that a zealous district attorney now could subpoena the records of all sites that had this porn movie. Then he could imprison 100 000 men for downloading the offending move from a legitimate web site that did correct age check and 2257 documentation.  Prison serves them right. Men should learn not to look at porn. All men that download porn should be scared off for good. Even our main article did not see this danger for 100 000 men.

But the saga continues for her real-life alter ego, Tyler Chanel Evans. She was recently called to a Budget Suites in a seedy part of Vegas after Carissa vandalized a hotel room. Then, on April 25, Evans was cuffed on an open warrant for grand larceny and possession of a stolen vehicle. Carissa had given cops Evans’s ID when she had first been arrested for the crime. "Wrong subject booked," the judge wrote in the case file. "The individual was a minor who is being dealt with in the juvenile system. Case dismissed."

Thanks to the police report documenting her claim of a stolen ID, Evans says she was able to stay out of jail: "Now I keep the report in my back pocket."

Get a lawyer before courting

1. Men need legal counsel to to take precautions not just before sex, but even before courting, kissing and even before conversing with a woman.
2. We missed some essential precautions. 27 precautions are not enough, rather we arrive at a total of 34 precautions before talking, kissing, and sex.

Our original 27 precautions list has items such as

• proof of consent,
• proof that consent was never withdrawn for even 5 seconds,
• proof that the woman was not in any way mentally incapacitated in ways that would invalidate consent,
• proof of age for all women that appear to be under 35 years of age. Precautions against fake ID

A lawyer must be consulted before kissing, fondling, courting or even talking

“Excuse me. Miss. I would like to talk to you.

But before any conversation, may I please have your original ID for age and background checks?

Before getting any closer I will need a blood sample for sobriety and drug tests!”

Merely talking to a (potential) minor is dangerous.  Touching and kissing is a minefield

If she looks under 35, check ID to avoid minors

Complex laws “protect” adolescents below the “age of consent”. So the mandatory ID checks should be done not just for sex, but before touching and kissing. Thus you avoid “indecent acts with a minor” charges. ID checks are needed even before talking, because mere talking it could be considered “grooming” of a minor.  If a 17-year-old looks 30 years old, and if you met her with a fake ID in a over-21-years-bar you still get 15 years in jail. So for any girl looking under 35 years of age, ID needs to be checked for veracity before any further grooming and courting.

We already listed 27 essential precautions before sex in this ground-breaking article

• Get a lawyer before sex: 27 precautions before risking sex with a woman

28) Stalking and harassment charge avoidance

Stalking and harassment laws may put you in jail for phoning, texting, or sending flowers

In Britain, if a women feels harassed twice, like by one love letter and once you try to pick her up after work, she can sue you for harassment.

29) Sexual harassment avoidance

29) Don’t even think of flirting at work. Or at college. Sexual harassment laws abolished free speech at the work place or at US Universities. The Sexual Harassment Industry (SHI) forbids anything, from compliments, to elevator eyes to objectifying gaze. Any “power differential” makes you a potential rapist of your secretary. If there is no power differential, then you may be guilty of “peer harassment”.  Courts apply the “reasonable woman standard”, which says that any slightest discomfort to an (un)reasonable woman is sexual harassment. Men get convicted by the preponderance of evidence standard, not by the “beyond reasonable doubt” standard.

It is advisable to not cause any discomfort and displeasure in any woman, because she can always allege sexual harassment or rape. In these accusations, men are guilty until proven innocent. Proving innocence is especially difficult if she presses charges only after 36 years.  False rape accusations are a powerful weapon of angry women.

STD lawsuit avoidance

Be aware of future consequences of a sex act, cohabitation or marriage

To recapitulate the other precautions:

Summary of the other 27 precautions for a man before having sex

1. study of the law in your country and state of residence and at the actual location where the sexual activity takes place
2. If anyone appears under 40 years of age, check ID for age and authenticity with help of a detective or police
3. Incest avoidance through genealogy and genetic analysis
4. Test for alcohol, drugs, that nobody is legally incompetent or has mental impairment
5. Assure and document consent in writing and prove it never has been withdrawn, requiring seamless recordings or constant presence of several witnesses
6. safekeeping and organizing this documentation and recordings
7. Prevent child support, pregnancy support, spousal support, common law marriage claims
8. Prevent accusations of domestic violence, spousal abuse
9. Avoid prostitution charges
10. is married sex a safer alternative?

Read all in 27 precautions for a man before having sex.

Never have sex before you are 18: Underage avoidance.

Underage avoidance is very complex. Adolescents are in real trouble. If you are under 20, you should also study

Consult a lawyer before playing doctor. Perverse sex laws traumatize children

This should convince you to never have sex until you are at least 18 years of age. If you don’t get punished, then your partner might get punished. In California, if two 17 year olds have a sexual relationship, both are criminal rapists.

Teenage sexuality: The immense complexity of local laws, state lines and international travel

Why all these laws?  Has the world gone crazy?

Yes. Feminism, together with religious fanatics, have conspired to make laws to criminalize male behavior and sexuality. The AntiFeminist has his theory of the Sexual Trade Union. Robert Kurzban has some explanations why almost everyone gains from interfering in other people’s sexuality.

51 year old Dough Hutchinson married a 16 year old child (yes, by law she is a child) . Do you think, that, before marriage, Dough Hutchinson never touched Courtney Alexis Stodden indecently? Because that would be a heinous crime of child rape and grave victimization of poor Alexis. Or if he chatted with her on the internet, he would be in violation of grooming laws.

She is 16 y, he 51 y (35 years difference)

Age ain’t nothing but a number – just ask 51-year-old actor Doug Hutchison. Hutchison, whose film and TV credits include ‘The Green Mile,’ ‘Lost’ and ’24,’ said ‘I do’ to 16-year-old aspiring country star Courtney Alexis Stodden on May 20 in Las Vegas.
While the couple’s 35-year age difference has already raised many eyebrows, the newlyweds insist they are truly in love.
‘We’re aware that our vast age difference is extremely controversial,’ the couple told E! Online. ‘But we’re very much in love and want to get the message out there that true love can be ageless.’ NY Daily News

The age of consent in California is 18, for sex law purposes she is a child. If Dough Hutchinson ever had sex with Courtney before marriage, this is rape. All rapes are equal. Nowadays, marriage does not remedy such heinous felony.

Courtney Alexis Stodden’s mother claims:

"Courtney was a virgin when she married Doug," said Krista Stoddden. "She is a good Christian girl. NY Daily News

If he just engaged in oral sex or indecent touching, indecent acts with a minor are rape too, at least sexual assault. Even if he never touched her, then he might have sent her seductive emails and thus run afoul of grooming laws. If he crossed state lines with the intent of having as much as oral sex with her in a state where it 16 is the legal age of consent, he would be violating federal law in the USA.

Even if he consumated the sexual acts only in marriage, it still leaves open the significant question:

• why is Courtney unable to *consent to sex, but she can consent to marriage.
• And why, after marriage, can she consent to sex?

We need a criminal investigation. This husband needs to be arrested without bail, the minor child needs to be saved. Obviously she has been brainwashed. Furthermore, it is just disgusting how an old guy like that can be with an innocent child of 16. We need new laws to outlaw such behavior, to protect innocent 16 year old children from such a marriage. 

In California, any person, of any age, that has sex with a minor, is a child rapist and felon. Most ( teens have sex before 18 years. 65-70% have sex before they are 18.  That means, the average teen gets raped at least once and one person should go to prison.  So Millions of Californians need to be locked up in prison. The law is the law, and the law has to be obeyed.

Do you think our proposals are stupid, wrong, immoral?  Well, stand up and fight for all these laws to be revoked.

Near state lines, adolescents need to carry GPS to make sure they are in the right state. When one partner is between 16 and 18 years old, then the location is of primordial importance. If you are an adolescent and think you can go to a more liberal neighboring state to engage in erotic and sexual activity, think twice: US federal law makes it a felony to cross state lines with the intent to have sex with an under 18 year old adolescent.

But, even if you cross between 2 states with age of consent of 16, with intent to have sex with your 17 year old lover, you still run afoul of federal law!? Certainly, if you travel to Europe to have legal sex with a 15 or 16 year old, as a US resident you are committing a felony by US law. If a non-resident European in the US receives his Green card (residency), his hitherto legal relationship in Europe suddenly becomes a felony in the US. Sex law attorneys have a golden future!

Case study: Vermont

Vermont: Age of Consent: 16 Age gap Provision: Yes*

Lewd or Lascivious Conduct with a Child:
No person shall willfully or lewdly commit and lewd or lascivious act upon or with the body, or any part or member thereof, of a child under the age of 16 years, with the intent of arousing, appealing to, or gratifying the lust, passion, or sexual desires, of such person. This section shall not apply if the actor is less than 19 years of age, the child is at least 15 years of age, and the contact is consensual.
Adolescent Sexual Behavior and the Law

Legal today, but felony after next birthday

Analyzing Vermont law, one can see

• If she is 14, he is 18. They have to wait. Not even a lewd act with the body. No touching!
• On her 15th birthday, they can have sex.
• Careful! on his 19th birthday, at midnight, what they legally did before, becomes a felony again.
• After she turns16, they can go back to having sex.

Easy, is it not? just put this into grade school curriculum. It is a good training for reading comprehension of legal codes.

While in Florida

If you are 23 and have a 16 year old girlfriend, beware of your 24th birthday. You will become a criminal!

Florida: Age of Consent: 18 Age Gap Provision: Yes*
Unlawful Sexual Activity with Certain Minors:
A person 24 years of age of older who engages in sexual activity with a person 16 or 17 years of age commits a felony in the second degree.
In Section 943.04354 it states that a person can be removed from the sex offender registry if they were not more than 4 years older than the victim at the time of the offense and the victim was at least 14 years of age or older.

Proof of this is in the outrageously unconstitutional Florida law that says an adult can have sex with a 16 year old but not if he has reached his 24th birthday.

This law shows there is ZERO intention of protecting a minor from being gang banged.

The football team can do your daughter but not their coach or me.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/07/08/hank-moody-chump/

Genarlow Wilson in Georgia

The situation is tricky. Ganarlow Wilson got a 10 year mandatory minimum jail sentence because he received oral sex instead of engaging in intercourse.

Genarlow, a 17 year old high school senior, was arrested for engaging in oral sex with a consenting partner who was two years younger than he. Those two years would prove to be crucial in this case, since the victim was below the age of consent which is set at 16 in Georgia where the incident took place.[...]

Age Gap Provisions
Ironically, if Genarlow had engaged in sexual intercourse with the 15 year old at the New Year’s Eve party, he would have only been convicted of a misdemeanor and not have been made to serve any jail time or register as a sex offender due to Georgia’s inclusion of an Age Gap Provision in their Child Molestation law. Because he engaged in an oral sex (sodomy) act, his case was classified as Aggravated Child Molestation, which at the time did not have the Age Gap Provision.
Adolescent Sexual Behavior and the Law

Georgia has some extremely problematic provisions regarding underage sex.  Guaranteed to keep your legal counsel busy.

Crossing state lines from Georgia to Tennessee

Everything is different once one crosses into a different state. Easy to comprehend for teenagers if we prioritize sex law education in school. Failure to educate in sex laws has far more serious real life consequences then failure to know physics or history.

Georgia: Age of Consent: 16 Age Gap Provision: Yes* 4y

Tennessee: Age of Consent: 18 Age Gap Provision: Yes* 3y

• In Georgia, 16 year old with 35 year old is ok. In Tennessee this is aggravated statutory rape.
• But, no Georgia is not more liberal in general. Due to lower age gap provision, in Tennessee 18 y with 14 y is ok (4 year gap), which is a felony in Georgia.
• In Tennessee, 13 y with 15 y is ok. In Georgia, sex or molestation is not ok. Interestingly, in consequence to Ganarlow Wilson laws, sodomy is legal for them (?)

The complexity of the law taxes the analytic capacity to interpret and understand complex texts. Obviously Texas elementary and high school students need to know all the pertinent legislation of their state (plus the neighboring states in case they go on vacation or trips)

Tennessee: Age of Consent: 18 Age Gap Provision: Yes*

Mitigated Statutory Rape: Class E Felony
(a)Mitigated statutory rape is the unlawful sexual penetration of a victim by the defendant, or of the defendant by the victim when the victim is at least 15 years of age but less than 18 and the defendant is at least 4 but not more than 5 years older than the victim.
Statutory Rape: Class E Felony
Statutory rape is the unlawful sexual penetration of a victim by the defendant or the defendant by the victim when:
(1)The victim is at least 13 years of age but less than 18 years of age and the defendant is at least 4 years older than the victim; or
(2) This victim is at least 15 years of age but less than 18 years of age and the defendant is more than 5 years older than the victim.
Aggravated Statutory Rape: Class D Felony
Is the unlawful sexual penetration of a victim by the defendant, or the defendant by the victim when the victim is at least 13 years of age but less than 18 and the defendant is at least 10 years older than the victim.  Adolescent Sexual Behavior and the Law

And in Brazil

A teen was arrested at his 18th birthday, with his 17 year old girl friend of many years. In Brazil, sex with adolescents of 14-17 years can be prosecuted under certain circumstances, especially upon parents’ complaint. On the other hands, adolescents under 18 get away even with murder because a minor’s criminal liability is extremely limited. So the girl’s father, a judge, waited for the 18th birthday to incriminate the poor boy. Certainly the girl appreciated the "protection" against abuse.

Muslim countries like Turkey

In Muslim countries, even foreigners can be convicted to serious whipping for minor "transgressions". Sex is a special taboo.

The following case caused major diplomatic ripples between Germany and Turkey

• Teenage boy jailed and sentenced for consensually kissing teenage girl (Marco Weiss-Charlotte-Turkey)

In addition to months in Turkish jails, poor Marco was in danger to be re-victimized and put before German courts after his return.

           and Saudi Arabia

I was told by that unmarried Saudi women returning from liberal Kuwait are routinely examined by Gynecologists at the  Saudi Kuwaiti border.  Traces of sperm ==> whipping for unlawful fornication outside marriage.

The dangers of false accusations

are even worse for adolescents then for adults. Like in Marco’s case in Turkey, there always is the aggravating circumstance that potentially false accusations of abuse, sex, and rape (especially against males) are always believed. The accused is arrested, tried and convicted, under complete disregard of constitutional human rights of due legal process.

If a girl was caught red-handed by mom, false rape accusations come in handy to distract from her own consent. But consent is irrelevant in adolescent rape cases, hence these accusations are even more dangerous then among adults.

• Yes means No! Forcibly raping a 17 year old is the same rape as consensual love making.
• Consent, rape & minors. What is consent to sex?

But even if the boy did nothing at all, false accusations are an even more powerful weapon of destruction and revenge. In the case of adolescents, there is no need to even allege non-consent, false allegations of consensual indecent acts are enough!